Success Tips for Memory Care Moving Day

When caring for a loved one or parent with dementia, Alzheimer’s, or another cognitive-related challenge, it is common for their care needs to evolve beyond what you can reasonably provide for them at home. Memory care communities like Broadview’s High Point Center for Care are here to provide holistic support for them — and peace of mind for you.

Here is what you can expect when moving a parent to memory care — including key advice for a successful transition before, during, and after their move.

Beginning the Conversation

While the specific needs and best approaches will vary from senior to senior, memory care experts agree it is important to tell your loved one that they will be moving. Though the conversation may be difficult, not telling your loved one about the change ahead of time can lead to distrust, anxiety, and paranoia.

Some seniors may experience anosognosia, which is the inability to recognize that they are sick. In these cases, as well as in general, professional memory care providers can help you navigate the conversation. Having a trusted doctor or physician included can also help your loved one feel confidence in transitioning to memory care.

Familiarize Them with The Community

Wondering how to move someone with dementia to a new home? A successful moving day to memory care begins well in advance of the big day itself. Visit your parent’s future memory care community together, encouraging them to explore and become excited about the new social and programming possibilities that will soon be available to them.

Take in the new space, and note any amenities that they are particularly interested in. This will help the community’s staff to encourage your loved one’s interest and integration into the community.

Packing Tips

When helping your loved one pack for their move to a memory care neighborhood, take note of the floor plan and guidelines of their new home. Keep in mind that some items are not allowed in residences, frequently including medications, mouthwash, coffee machines, and knives as well as other sharp objects.

This is a good opportunity to sort and organize knick-knacks and other miscellaneous items. Reduce clutter wherever possible, and consider keeping only the current season’s clothing in their apartment and switching out their wardrobe as the weather changes. Items are sometimes misplaced among residents, which is why it is a good idea to include labels on any clothing or particularly sentimental items.

Settling In

Thoughtfully setting up your loved one’s new home is a great way to support a successful moving day. For a smooth transition, try to have the space fully ready for them when they enter. Also be mindful of the time of day. Make the move in the morning to avoid overlapping with sundowning, or anxiety and confusion related to cognitive decline that can be experienced in the afternoon or evening.

If your loved one will be downsizing, try to prioritize keeping items and furniture that will help them feel comfortable and safe. A favorite chair, well-loved bedsheets, and sentimental items will create a familiar environment for them. Consider creating a shadowbox for their home, featuring memorabilia from their life and time periods they’ve experienced.

Where possible, situate furniture and clocks similar to their old home, especially any items that they use frequently and the bed in relation to the bathroom. This will help them navigate their new space more easily and with less confusion.

Give Them Time

After helping them move in and settle, give your loved one some breathing room to settle in. How they adapt to their new home will depend on their cognitive abilities and mental acuity.

Trust in your new support system at the memory care community to keep your loved one safe, engaged, and comfortable. There will most likely be both good and bad days. Ask the staff for updates on your loved one, how they are acclimating to the new space, and plan your visits accordingly.

High Point is Here to Help

Moving a parent or loved one to a memory care community can take time, patience, and compassion. At High Point at Broadview, our experienced memory care staff are here to support you and your loved one every step of the way. Contact us today to learn more and discover our welcoming, engaging, and safe memory care neighborhood.